Comments for Slave musings http://floozy.ca Masters' slave sharing her journey, her introspection of the world she embraces, of the life she has chosen to live. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:19:18 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 Comment on Evolution of myself; of the exchange with pet. by His Owned http://floozy.ca/2010/03/11/evolution-of-myself-of-the-exchange-with-pet/comment-page-1/#comment-1259 His Owned Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:19:18 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=707#comment-1259 Sir, You hit the nail right on the head and I thought I had stressed that in my entry; however, obviously I did not. I am at a place where making a "relationship" with pet is not important. What is important is that there remains respect and care. I have definitely altered my approach and I do not engage with pet in the same manner I might with others. I am looking at pet as just that, a pet. Someone I can exude my dominance with; someone I can release some of my sadistic desires on, all while ensuring both of our desires are met. I believe it was about a month ago where my light bulb clicked and I realised that no two relationships are the same nor should they have to be. I most definitely am at a place of content with regards to my exchange with pet and much of that has to do with my own confidence, support from Master and understanding that some things just are not what I once thought they were suppose to be. I am delighted to hear from you as I enjoy your insight. I do hope all is well in your neck of the woods and I look forward to any comment you wish to share and of course for all you share on your own journal. ~His Sir,
You hit the nail right on the head and I thought I had stressed that in my entry; however, obviously I did not. I am at a place where making a “relationship” with pet is not important. What is important is that there remains respect and care. I have definitely altered my approach and I do not engage with pet in the same manner I might with others. I am looking at pet as just that, a pet. Someone I can exude my dominance with; someone I can release some of my sadistic desires on, all while ensuring both of our desires are met. I believe it was about a month ago where my light bulb clicked and I realised that no two relationships are the same nor should they have to be. I most definitely am at a place of content with regards to my exchange with pet and much of that has to do with my own confidence, support from Master and understanding that some things just are not what I once thought they were suppose to be.

I am delighted to hear from you as I enjoy your insight. I do hope all is well in your neck of the woods and I look forward to any comment you wish to share and of course for all you share on your own journal.

~His

]]> Comment on Evolution of myself; of the exchange with pet. by His Owned http://floozy.ca/2010/03/11/evolution-of-myself-of-the-exchange-with-pet/comment-page-1/#comment-1258 His Owned Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:12:22 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=707#comment-1258 submissive butterfly Hello :) What kind and generous words, thank you. I do appreciate that you enjoy my writings and even more that you take time out of your life to leave me a message. I believe that every dynamic is unique and I think it is extremely important to understand who you are and what you want before participating in anything or to at least be willing to accept that there may be some hard and painful bumps along the road. I wish whatever should happen with you and your Sir that the journey is everything you ever wanted and more. ~His submissive butterfly
Hello :) What kind and generous words, thank you. I do appreciate that you enjoy my writings and even more that you take time out of your life to leave me a message. I believe that every dynamic is unique and I think it is extremely important to understand who you are and what you want before participating in anything or to at least be willing to accept that there may be some hard and painful bumps along the road. I wish whatever should happen with you and your Sir that the journey is everything you ever wanted and more.

~His

]]> Comment on Evolution of myself; of the exchange with pet. by Sir http://floozy.ca/2010/03/11/evolution-of-myself-of-the-exchange-with-pet/comment-page-1/#comment-1257 Sir Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:49:59 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=707#comment-1257 If I may be allowed a little latitude as it has been a while since last I voiced my opinion and my chops may be lacking in their effectiveness. If I am not completely off base it appears that this experience or the exchange in its entirety regarding pet is meant to provide exposure, for you specifically to explore your dominant side. If I am correct in this I would suggest that for this fact alone you distance from the aspect of relationship and focus more on the dynamic and dominant within you. Perhaps this may sound a little harsh but allow me to explain. We both have a relationship built on love and trust with the primary in our dynamic, you with your Master and me with my little one. Through this specific connection we are able to confide and grow together through our experiences and work toward a common goal. I do not believe that this was the intent when you both set out to find a pet and the added tension may be a result of trying to make this something it is not. I commend you both on the effort to include a third in the way you have, however I am speaking purely from an outsider looking in as I know that the likelihood of little one and myself following your lead in this regard may not illicit success for us. Experiences are just that. You try and you evaluate. You grow from the experience both good and bad but either way I see it as productive. In this situation I would merely suggest that you look to step far outside your box and see this as an experience and not a relationship. I would assume that although you and pet do have your connections, on a broader scale there are dimensions at play (age, experience, expectations)that keep you from garnering the connection you are accustomed to. This is not a negative in my eye but rather it could allow you both the ability to explore uninhibited. If you are expected to explore and consequently realize your dominant side with pet you will need to remove the guilt and frustration associated with not having this preconceived notion of having the connection you may never realize with her. We are hardwired to seek out the similarities that bind us as individuals. In my opinion this situation requires that you get in touch with the dominant within and firmly take the lead of the submissive in front of you. Find what it is that you want to achieve from this and do so with care and safety in mind. What do "you" want to do with her next? Is it something "you" want to experience or is it something "you" want her to learn from your session together? Either way it is for "you" to decide. Now simply act on it. Sir If I may be allowed a little latitude as it has been a while since last I voiced my opinion and my chops may be lacking in their effectiveness.
If I am not completely off base it appears that this experience or the exchange in its entirety regarding pet is meant to provide exposure, for you specifically to explore your dominant side. If I am correct in this I would suggest that for this fact alone you distance from the aspect of relationship and focus more on the dynamic and dominant within you.
Perhaps this may sound a little harsh but allow me to explain. We both have a relationship built on love and trust with the primary in our dynamic, you with your Master and me with my little one. Through this specific connection we are able to confide and grow together through our experiences and work toward a common goal. I do not believe that this was the intent when you both set out to find a pet and the added tension may be a result of trying to make this something it is not. I commend you both on the effort to include a third in the way you have, however I am speaking purely from an outsider looking in as I know that the likelihood of little one and myself following your lead in this regard may not illicit success for us.
Experiences are just that. You try and you evaluate. You grow from the experience both good and bad but either way I see it as productive. In this situation I would merely suggest that you look to step far outside your box and see this as an experience and not a relationship. I would assume that although you and pet do have your connections, on a broader scale there are dimensions at play (age, experience, expectations)that keep you from garnering the connection you are accustomed to. This is not a negative in my eye but rather it could allow you both the ability to explore uninhibited.
If you are expected to explore and consequently realize your dominant side with pet you will need to remove the guilt and frustration associated with not having this preconceived notion of having the connection you may never realize with her. We are hardwired to seek out the similarities that bind us as individuals. In my opinion this situation requires that you get in touch with the dominant within and firmly take the lead of the submissive in front of you. Find what it is that you want to achieve from this and do so with care and safety in mind.
What do “you” want to do with her next? Is it something “you” want to experience or is it something “you” want her to learn from your session together? Either way it is for “you” to decide. Now simply act on it.
Sir

]]> Comment on Evolution of myself; of the exchange with pet. by submissive butterfly http://floozy.ca/2010/03/11/evolution-of-myself-of-the-exchange-with-pet/comment-page-1/#comment-1256 submissive butterfly Fri, 12 Mar 2010 09:48:39 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=707#comment-1256 I enjoy reading your words and have found I am drawn to your writings about pet and her integration into your lives for I believe we shall too be in a similar place. I find it conjours up interesting questions for me as even tho I am polyamorous this sharing of Sir is not what was originally envisaged within our D/s dynamic. I wish you well and look forward to seeing how things unfold for you sub butterfly I enjoy reading your words and have found I am drawn to your writings about pet and her integration into your lives for I believe we shall too be in a similar place. I find it conjours up interesting questions for me as even tho I am polyamorous this sharing of Sir is not what was originally envisaged within our D/s dynamic.

I wish you well and look forward to seeing how things unfold for you

sub butterfly

]]> Comment on Planning on expanding my horizons. by His Owned http://floozy.ca/2010/03/01/planning-on-expanding-my-horizons/comment-page-1/#comment-1251 His Owned Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:54:01 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=702#comment-1251 sweet girl, I do wish you the very best with your relationship and I hope your journey is one of many adventures. I thank you for taking time to leave a comment as I do value what those who read my journal think and or feel. Wishing you a lifetime of adventure. ~His sweet girl,
I do wish you the very best with your relationship and I hope your journey is one of many adventures.
I thank you for taking time to leave a comment as I do value what those who read my journal think and or feel.

Wishing you a lifetime of adventure.

~His

]]> Comment on Apologies are no longer acceptable. by Quintin Stromski http://floozy.ca/2009/10/24/apologies-are-no-longer-acceptable/comment-page-1/#comment-1250 Quintin Stromski Wed, 10 Mar 2010 11:39:33 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=537#comment-1250 superb stuff thanks superb stuff thanks

]]> Comment on Planning on expanding my horizons. by sweet girl http://floozy.ca/2010/03/01/planning-on-expanding-my-horizons/comment-page-1/#comment-1245 sweet girl Sun, 07 Mar 2010 22:28:03 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=702#comment-1245 I begin a long distance relationship with Him tonight. There have been a couple of small signs that this is meant to be. First, a song that He first mentioned to me when He first IMd me and I downloaded it. For the next couple days after that, it always seemed to be playing when I listened to music and when He asked me for my number-Guess what song was playing? Secondly, I found this site-Today the day I will officially belong to Him. Already my soul thrills when I see an e-mail from Him. When I see His name on my caller ID, I'm almost giddy... I will most definitely be checking back regularly... Thank you. I begin a long distance relationship with Him tonight. There have been a couple of small signs that this is meant to be. First, a song that He first mentioned to me when He first IMd me and I downloaded it. For the next couple days after that, it always seemed to be playing when I listened to music and when He asked me for my number-Guess what song was playing? Secondly, I found this site-Today the day I will officially belong to Him. Already my soul thrills when I see an e-mail from Him. When I see His name on my caller ID, I’m almost giddy…

I will most definitely be checking back regularly…

Thank you.

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