Comments on: Clear Expectations. http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/ Masters' slave sharing her journey, her introspection of the world she embraces, of the life she has chosen to live. Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:54:01 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: His Only http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/comment-page-1/#comment-930 His Only Wed, 25 Nov 2009 21:53:43 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=575#comment-930 Delilah, Congratulations. I am very happy you found your voice. I have often found mine through writing, I think it can be easier to articulate via pen and paper rather than face to face. No matter how you found it I am very happy for you and your Master. May your journey continue and may you always have your voice! ~His Delilah,
Congratulations. I am very happy you found your voice. I have often found mine through writing, I think it can be easier to articulate via pen and paper rather than face to face. No matter how you found it I am very happy for you and your Master. May your journey continue and may you always have your voice!

~His

]]> By: Delilah http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/comment-page-1/#comment-929 Delilah Wed, 25 Nov 2009 08:37:35 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=575#comment-929 So I found my voice (albeit written rather than verbal, but that is the way I cheat normally) and was rewarded for it with a wonderful conversation between Master and me. As I should have known, I was jumping to plenty of groundless assumptions and he corrected me on all of them. And then he put me in my place (which I loved) and I've spent the last 2 days drinking all my beverages from a dog bowl. Because we both needed to remember who was master here. I will remember your lessons into the future. Thank you! So I found my voice (albeit written rather than verbal, but that is the way I cheat normally) and was rewarded for it with a wonderful conversation between Master and me. As I should have known, I was jumping to plenty of groundless assumptions and he corrected me on all of them. And then he put me in my place (which I loved) and I’ve spent the last 2 days drinking all my beverages from a dog bowl. Because we both needed to remember who was master here.

I will remember your lessons into the future. Thank you!

]]> By: His Only http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/comment-page-1/#comment-922 His Only Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:19:42 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=575#comment-922 Master, How big my smile grows when I hear you call me your property. I am grateful for the time and effort we both put into our relationship and although there have been some bumps along our journey I believe it has been well worth it for I feel as though we are stronger, I am stronger and I feel far more confident in my place with you. I value what we have and I am always willing to work because we are worth it. Thank you for walking beside me, for holding my hand and for always encouraging me to voice my feelings, to express myself. This past weekend was monumental for me, for us and I believe our pet certainly has a great deal of potential. I love You my Master. ~Yours Master,
How big my smile grows when I hear you call me your property. I am grateful for the time and effort we both put into our relationship and although there have been some bumps along our journey I believe it has been well worth it for I feel as though we are stronger, I am stronger and I feel far more confident in my place with you. I value what we have and I am always willing to work because we are worth it.
Thank you for walking beside me, for holding my hand and for always encouraging me to voice my feelings, to express myself.
This past weekend was monumental for me, for us and I believe our pet certainly has a great deal of potential.

I love You my Master.

~Yours

]]> By: His Only http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/comment-page-1/#comment-921 His Only Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:14:55 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=575#comment-921 Delilah, Thank you so much. Master and I are finally on the same page and it feels amazing. I truly have a remarkable Master and even though we might not always see eye to eye he is always willing to listen and ensure my heart and soul come first. I have had many share with me that they have been worried/concerned for me and I appreciate everyone's consideration; however, I truly do have a Master who loves me dearly and although feelings may be hurt from time to time, the love we share for one another supersedes all else. :) I can completely respect and understand your concern about feeling needy. I know that since Master and I have lived under the same roof I have felt exceptionally needy, more so than ever before. I am not so certain if it is part of a submissive to be needy; however, after great reflection and numerous conversations with other submissive women I can say that the feeling of neediness appears to be a constant with each of us. The reality, for me, is that I am dependent on Master for so many things. I ask permission for almost everything and he controls absolutely everything about me. I have given, I have asked Master to control me and I have the ability to stop that control; however, I want him to control, in fact I crave it and I flourish when he has it. And because he has it I am needy and that simply is the way it is and I have come to accept and embrace it. If I have learned anything through this experience Delilah it is that communicating all that I am feeling and thinking with Master is critical for a positive relationship and that as powerful as Master is, he is not a mind reader and it is important for me to share with him everything that I am feeling/thinking/experiencing. When I withhold from Master that is when conflict arises. I understand your thoughts of wanting to protect your Master but in truth holding back from him can potentially be harmful to the relationship. I wish you all the very best and I hope your journey with your Master continues to flourish. ~His Delilah,
Thank you so much. Master and I are finally on the same page and it feels amazing. I truly have a remarkable Master and even though we might not always see eye to eye he is always willing to listen and ensure my heart and soul come first. I have had many share with me that they have been worried/concerned for me and I appreciate everyone’s consideration; however, I truly do have a Master who loves me dearly and although feelings may be hurt from time to time, the love we share for one another supersedes all else. :)

I can completely respect and understand your concern about feeling needy. I know that since Master and I have lived under the same roof I have felt exceptionally needy, more so than ever before. I am not so certain if it is part of a submissive to be needy; however, after great reflection and numerous conversations with other submissive women I can say that the feeling of neediness appears to be a constant with each of us. The reality, for me, is that I am dependent on Master for so many things. I ask permission for almost everything and he controls absolutely everything about me. I have given, I have asked Master to control me and I have the ability to stop that control; however, I want him to control, in fact I crave it and I flourish when he has it. And because he has it I am needy and that simply is the way it is and I have come to accept and embrace it.

If I have learned anything through this experience Delilah it is that communicating all that I am feeling and thinking with Master is critical for a positive relationship and that as powerful as Master is, he is not a mind reader and it is important for me to share with him everything that I am feeling/thinking/experiencing. When I withhold from Master that is when conflict arises. I understand your thoughts of wanting to protect your Master but in truth holding back from him can potentially be harmful to the relationship.

I wish you all the very best and I hope your journey with your Master continues to flourish.

~His

]]> By: His Only http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/comment-page-1/#comment-920 His Only Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:06:41 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=575#comment-920 Sir, Thank you for your kindness, for your words of encouragement and support. I agree with you that communication can be taken for granted which is why I was unwilling to stop the conversations because I knew if we continued to talk eventually it would all unravel and finally Master and I would be speaking the same language. So much has transformed throughout the past week and even though there were moments of uncertainty, everything is finally all falling into place and I feel happy, loved, safe and excited about what the future will hold. Your words have left a lasting impact on me and I thank you for that. I am grateful for both yours and your little one's words of encouragement and comfort. ~His Sir,
Thank you for your kindness, for your words of encouragement and support. I agree with you that communication can be taken for granted which is why I was unwilling to stop the conversations because I knew if we continued to talk eventually it would all unravel and finally Master and I would be speaking the same language. So much has transformed throughout the past week and even though there were moments of uncertainty, everything is finally all falling into place and I feel happy, loved, safe and excited about what the future will hold.

Your words have left a lasting impact on me and I thank you for that. I am grateful for both yours and your little one’s words of encouragement and comfort.

~His

]]> By: His Only http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/comment-page-1/#comment-919 His Only Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:01:38 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=575#comment-919 pet, Without a doubt, do I feel that we are all on the same page and I believe this past weekend only proves that. It has been a rocky and windy road getting here and although the journey was challenging I am happy we continued. :) ~His pet,
Without a doubt, do I feel that we are all on the same page and I believe this past weekend only proves that. It has been a rocky and windy road getting here and although the journey was challenging I am happy we continued. :)

~His

]]> By: Delilah http://floozy.ca/2009/11/19/clear-expecations/comment-page-1/#comment-917 Delilah Sun, 22 Nov 2009 04:19:14 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=575#comment-917 Firstly I'm so glad to hear that a balance has been found here and that your needs are going to be considered ongoing. I'll admit I've worried about you in this for a while, as I don't think I could possibly share my Master's attention without drowning in sorrow. Secondly I envy your new-found voice. Right now I am struggling with how to find mine without feeling high maintenance and needy. Do you ever feel like it is part of the submissive life to constantly need? Having prided myself on extreme independence for all my life before this new one I hate this constant need. Your post helps remind me that protecting my Master from it may not be protecting him at all. Wish me luck in figuring out how to voice it. Firstly I’m so glad to hear that a balance has been found here and that your needs are going to be considered ongoing. I’ll admit I’ve worried about you in this for a while, as I don’t think I could possibly share my Master’s attention without drowning in sorrow.

Secondly I envy your new-found voice. Right now I am struggling with how to find mine without feeling high maintenance and needy. Do you ever feel like it is part of the submissive life to constantly need? Having prided myself on extreme independence for all my life before this new one I hate this constant need. Your post helps remind me that protecting my Master from it may not be protecting him at all. Wish me luck in figuring out how to voice it.

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