Comments on: My own kind of porn. http://floozy.ca/2009/11/06/my-own-kind-of-porn/ Masters' slave sharing her journey, her introspection of the world she embraces, of the life she has chosen to live. Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:54:01 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: His Only http://floozy.ca/2009/11/06/my-own-kind-of-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-881 His Only Sun, 08 Nov 2009 21:56:00 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=567#comment-881 Wuzzle, I truly appreciate how well you articulate your perspectives. I have come across numerous women who seem to be much younger than myself who actually derive a great deal of orgasmic pleasure simply from watching pornographic movies. I can not help but wonder if, like all things, each generation brings about a new awareness, a new desire, with time. I am of like minds with you as I personally do not find genitalia to be attractive, this does not mean I believe the human body is ugly, but rather I just do not look at male or female sex(reproductive) organs and become instantaneously aroused. I need an emotional as well as mental connection and from your comment and many e-mails, I have come to learn I am not alone. I think that everyone is different. We all feel pleasure in numerous ways, mine simply does not come from the humping and pumping of two strangers acting before a camera. Thank you for commenting. I do value others perspectives and especially enjoy when someone thinks along the same lines as I do. :) ~His Wuzzle,
I truly appreciate how well you articulate your perspectives. I have come across numerous women who seem to be much younger than myself who actually derive a great deal of orgasmic pleasure simply from watching pornographic movies. I can not help but wonder if, like all things, each generation brings about a new awareness, a new desire, with time. I am of like minds with you as I personally do not find genitalia to be attractive, this does not mean I believe the human body is ugly, but rather I just do not look at male or female sex(reproductive) organs and become instantaneously aroused. I need an emotional as well as mental connection and from your comment and many e-mails, I have come to learn I am not alone.

I think that everyone is different. We all feel pleasure in numerous ways, mine simply does not come from the humping and pumping of two strangers acting before a camera.

Thank you for commenting. I do value others perspectives and especially enjoy when someone thinks along the same lines as I do. :)

~His

]]> By: Wuzzle http://floozy.ca/2009/11/06/my-own-kind-of-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-880 Wuzzle Sun, 08 Nov 2009 19:25:42 +0000 http://floozy.ca/?p=567#comment-880 I've never really found porn to be truly appealing. You are right; most porn seems emotionless and fake. I think I enjoy watching home videos of sex between true couples much better than porn stars who show off parts of their bodies that are honestly unattractive in themselves. I don't even find a penis attractive in itself. It's just a funny-looking organ...until there are meaning and symbolism behind it. There is a difference between sex organs that simply do their biological jobs and sex organs that become extremities of the mind and spirit. Most women seem to be unaffected by most porn. I read somewhere that women don't usually become aroused enough for orgasm simply by looking at the male body. "Men learn from masturbation that their sexual arousal arises from an appreciation of pictures of naked women, especially their sexual attributes. This enables men to become easily aroused during sex with a partner. Women learn from masturbation that their sexual arousal arises from an appreciation of eroticism, through sexual fantasies. These are complex psychological scenarios that involve the behaviour and personalities of imagined characters." It seems true for you, as it does for me, that pleasure comes from the mind of a woman more than anything else. I think this is why many women receive an enormous satisfaction from giving blowjobs, or giving pleasure without receiving any physical pleasure. Once mental pleasure is added to porn and sex, it immediately becomes so much more than mere biological mating. Wuzzle I’ve never really found porn to be truly appealing. You are right; most porn seems emotionless and fake. I think I enjoy watching home videos of sex between true couples much better than porn stars who show off parts of their bodies that are honestly unattractive in themselves. I don’t even find a penis attractive in itself. It’s just a funny-looking organ…until there are meaning and symbolism behind it. There is a difference between sex organs that simply do their biological jobs and sex organs that become extremities of the mind and spirit.

Most women seem to be unaffected by most porn. I read somewhere that women don’t usually become aroused enough for orgasm simply by looking at the male body.

“Men learn from masturbation that their sexual arousal arises from an appreciation of pictures of naked women, especially their sexual attributes. This enables men to become easily aroused during sex with a partner.

Women learn from masturbation that their sexual arousal arises from an appreciation of eroticism, through sexual fantasies. These are complex psychological scenarios that involve the behaviour and personalities of imagined characters.”

It seems true for you, as it does for me, that pleasure comes from the mind of a woman more than anything else. I think this is why many women receive an enormous satisfaction from giving blowjobs, or giving pleasure without receiving any physical pleasure.

Once mental pleasure is added to porn and sex, it immediately becomes so much more than mere biological mating.

Wuzzle

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